this is the relay board I found. I purchased it before finding out about adafruit:
4 Relay CH DC12V Wireless Receiver&Transmitter Momentary Toggle Latched RF Remote Control Switch System LED SMD ON OFFhttp://www.aliexpress.com/item/4-Relay- ... 43990.html
The issue is I need to have it controlled by a keyfob which is why I had that board. So the RF portion of the board I have is crucial.
I also purchased the https://www.adafruit.com/products/1096--
received this one much faster but even when there is 9 v on the activated line the motor will not turn in either direction.